As soon as you make a decision the forces of good and evil adjust their stance to assist or
dissolve your intentions, to bring you to more love or to more misery, both wanting to rejoice in your success or failure.
No need to utter a word, no need to move a single muscle, no need to even move your eyelid. In the darkness of your own room, under your own blanket you have the power to decide.
No one can know but everybody knows at that very moment. People will move in or out of your life, you will be at the right or wrong time in the right or wrong place, doors will open or hit you in the face.
So, decide wisely.